It will still be there
We were talking today with an old family friend and got a good reminder. She and her husband are in their seventies and recently had a fabulous trip to Italy. They had a great time, walking everywhere and exploring everything.
We would love to go to Italy as well, but the thought of travelling with two young children turns my stomach.
It's worth remembering that Italy's still going to be there in 20 years. Yes, we could get hit by a bus tomorrow. But we probably won't be. We are making the marriage the priority, instead of stressful family trips. We plan to still like each other in 20 years and suspect that Italy is going to be just perfect for reconnecting after the children have flown the nest. And Italy's just the beginning.
Having goals in common is a really important way of strengthening your marriage. Just don't let them cause you stress. If you can't pack them in to your 20s or 30s, it's OK. You've still got decades to look forward to together!
The photo, by the way, is from Stefano Caporali.
Happy Couples, Happy Planet!
posted by Heather and Dan @ 7:52 PM
2 Comments :
I'm getting married on Friday, and your blog has really helped to ease some of my fears. Thank you so much!
cora,
You've made our day! We want to wish you and your partner a fabulous wedding day and a wonderful life together!
And try not to worry too much about those small fears. We all have them. Perhaps there is something wrong if a person ISN'T a touch afraid at getting married. It's a big step! Having said that, it is the best decision I ever made (Dan says the same!).
I am attaching a copy of a lovely poem that might help keep things in perspective...I think it's very fitting for someone getting ready to marry...it was read at our wedding. http://www.panhala.net/Archive/The_Truelove.html
May your life together be full of nothing but happiness!
All the very best,
Heather and Dan
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