Humour and gender
I remember listening to a comedian a few years ago. If I could remember her name I'd give her credit... so if you know who it was, let us know!She said that a woman will say to a friend, "You are my oldest and dearest friend and I love you like a sister." Meanwhile, a man will be telling his buddy, "What?!? You are still driving that piece of crap!" And it means the same thing!
It's true. Guys give each other a hard time when they are friends. It is a way of connecting and I generally am a big fan, being a smartalecky guy myself. I'm pretty sure the sub-text is "I give you the gears because I know you can take it. It is a sign of respect."
But I have had to learn the hard way that it usually doesn't make for intimacy and connection with most women, most of the time. Don't get me wrong -- there are thousands (OK, millions) of women out there who are smarter, wittier, funnier, and more cutting than me. Chances are, though, your wife or bride-to-be doesn't enjoy it that much when you poke fun at her. She probably would be happier if you told your buddy what a jerk he is and gave her a back rub instead. Even if she is a lot quicker than me.
So tease with caution.
Happy Couples, Happy Planet!
posted by Heather and Dan @ 9:18 PM
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